I just had to share this because I think it is just a display of how stressed out people are getting these days. This morning when I took my kids to school, there was a mom in a minivan who had just dropped her kids off. I was waiting to park and the car I was waiting for was taking quite a long time to back out. So, in an effort to be polite, with my kids still in the car, I KINDLY let the minivan mom know that she could go ahead in front of me so she would not have to wait on myself and the other car. I waved to her(with a smile) to go ahead in front of me.
I always try to let people in front of me when traffic is heavy or even if I too am in a hurry. Why? Because I believe in Karma. I believe that if I do that for others it WILL come back to me ten fold. Then one day when I desperately need someone to do that for me….THEY WILL.
Okay, back to my story… So I wave her by with a smile and she starts coming unglued at me: waving her arms, cursing, yelling through her window. She was one irritated mom on a mission to do nothing but TELL ME OFF. My kids were just sitting there in a daze and I said, “Well, maybe she’s just having a bad morning.”
Truly though, I was really disappointed. I was disappointed that she assumed the worst and that my kids had to see another parent behave in such a manner. I thought to myself,WOW, I hope I never cut her off accidently on the roadway.
I still cannot figure it out. So, an act of kindness ends up being turned into a mom in a minivan going off on me in front of my kids. Perhaps she had just not had her coffee yet. Perhaps she did indeed have a rough morning. Perhaps she is one to automatically assume the worst in others and jump to conclusions. I am not sure. I will just hope that she is in a better mood before she picks her kids up at school today and I will also BLESS her and hope that whatever the reason….she tries to model better behavior in the future. I also know that sometimes we all just HAVE A BAD DAY.
My point….I know I am just on a ramble here, but it just goes to show you that you really never know who is watching: an adult, a child, a potential employer, a future client, the school principal. So try to hold yourself high. Be polite to others. Do random acts of kindness even if those you are doing them for end up not being grateful. Teach your children to do the same. Teach them to pray for road ragers and angry
minivan moms who have had a bad morning. REMEMBER, we teach kids more by our actions than by our words.
JUST MY TWO CENTS FOR THE DAY!!!
~Niki
NOTHING GRIEVES A CHILD MORE THAN TO STUDY THE WRONG LESSON, AND LEARN SOMETHING HE WASN’T SUPPOSED TO. ~E.C. Mc Kenzie
by Nichol Krupp
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